I imagine he's intrigued by the novelty and excitement of this lifestyle. Of course, by the time he's tired of it you will probably be happily remarried....
root, you pegged it. He is caught up in the novelty of his exciting life. I am the boring person that works hard, gets appropriate rest, and stays home with her kids when I am off work. I can't 'compete', nor do I want to. I am always right where I want to be (ok, not at work lol). I do want a new relationship in the future. I love being married, having a partner. I almost can't wait to find a better man, someone who likes that I am 'boring'. MWAH!
Hey Sue, the new women in H's life doesn't hurt as much as if he were still with OW, but it does still hurt. You are correct.
So much more mess:
Long story short, H accidentally hit on a friend of a friend of mine on Saturday night. We had been out with this woman and her H numerous times in the past (as couples). H had no clue, until she (amen!) said "I am friends with your W, Mr. LWB. I can't believe you don't remember that" and he completely freaked out and left the bar. Wow. I thanked my friend for sticking up for me. I am mortified even though I know its all him. I cried hard when I heard about this.
Also, H fell asleep on the couch last night. I told him I was NOT setting my alarm to help him wake up for work. Nope. He was fine with it. Overslept today, freaked out, cried, and left for work late without saying goodbye to the girls. I almost regret not waking him (work is 'business', not emotion and it will mess us BOTH up if he gets fired), but my mind told me not to help him. Feels so wrong.
Blecky.
PS: Sue, they loved the movie, but I think they liked the popcorn even more.
