Wife Filed And I Need Help With Busting ASAP

[Scott123]

I know she has been through a ton of crap and so have I. I do not
expect her to just forget about the past, but there is more to
this than just our relationship problems she is also having
massive mood swings and has a serious gambling problems that she
is keeping from everyone. This is why I'm looking for some advice
before opening my mouth to her about certain things.

As far as gluten intolerance and rage. NO, that is not the
only thing that affected my chemistry it was the hypoglycemia.
It's actually common. uncontrollable rage, snap irritability,
anger, paranoia etc. Many raging alcoholics for example have serious problems with bloodsugar, her problem and I understand it
is that she just compares it to stuff that happened in the past
and does not see the problem for what it is. Her thinking
is definitely clouded with resentment, anger etc. and I do
understand that and empathize.

As far as her trying and I don't blame her... she really was
not there for me, I got pushed aside and had to figure out
all of this on my own with no support from her. She told
me before (even in her email) that she feels guilty about that.
I don't resent her for it, I'm past that. I'm just happy to
finally have a clear head and no depression.

I'm not sure what to say to her when I leave. I don't just want
to leave without saying anything and I don't want her to think
that I am leaving mad or with any ill feelings toward her. As
far as the OM, like I said i cannot prove it so really I cannot
express any feelings for that since they very well could be totally
wrong anyway. I just have a funny feeling about it, but that's
all.