lwb-

Great job on the race. I'm so proud of you. I thought about you yesterday as I was huffing & puffing to keep up with D4 on her bike.

As far as your H goes. Wow, I'm sorry. You know, I think that even if it were another woman other than OW, it would bother me. I'm ready to move on, but it would still hurt. What is with the world today? You mentioned that this new OW appears to be married, with kids. I know at least 2 people in my office that had affairs. Both married, one with kids. I've had a couple of good friend's whose spouses have had affairs. And then there's my own sitch. 2 affairs that I'm aware of and the longer I go through this, the more I believe that there's been others....at least 1 night stands or messing around. It makes it very hard to feel like I'll be able to build trust in anyone again.

Did the girls like Kung Fu Panda? D4 loved it, although there were a couple of parts she thought were scary. Good thing her mommy has such good hugs for her!

Have a good day!

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day