Wife Filed And I Need Help With Busting ASAP

[Scott123]

I'm going to be leaving in the next two days depending on
how fast I can move the rest of my stuff out.

I'm wondering if I should not only confront her about
the above comments I posted in my last post, but also
what I else i should say to her before I leave.

I was thinking of telling her how I felt the OM situation
was totally unacceptable to me as well as our daughter, it
violated our trust and caused a huge rift in our relationship.
It would be impossible to heal our friendship if it continued.

I also wanted to tell her that if she needs to talk to me or
needs someone to listen to or lean on I will be there for her
as a friend.

I just want to leave on a good note.

I wont say anything about the gambling because I know she will
just take that as an attack and I know that is a serious problem
that she needs help with. The rest of our family is discussing it
and trying to figure out how we can all help her, but have agreed
that I need to keep out of it for now due to the other stuff
going on with our relationship.

My sister as well as other family said that maybe she needs to
really hit bottom not only with the gambling, but also with
our relationship before she wakes up to what she is doing?
I feel so bad and sad for her because I don't want to see that
happen to her.

Man it's rough seeing her like this.

- Scott