I read your post last night.. but wanted to think about what struck me..
"I wonder where I will be after the next ten threads?"
Thoughts that came to me:
It would take a whole lot longer to fill the next five threads than it did the first ten.
Far, far away with winsome smile on your face never having gone past four more threads.
The more drama, the more posts, the more completed threads. I wish you very few more.
I look to my future. All I see is growth, work (in a good way) and moving forward. All this comes with my new improved healthy perspective. I figure I'm not going to be out in the dating pool until a year after the divorce is finalized. This is a lot of change for me and my kids to process. I want to be whole and confident before I know anyone else in that way.
Oh yes.. and if the situation with spouse changes? Heck.. It has to be one of growth, individual and mutual, and that won't happen overnight either.
Why worry about finding someone in the future when you still haven't found yourself in the present?
