Me not being friendly to him was a 180. I'm sure he was wondering what was up.
I'm done doing anything for him, because of him, whatever. It's time for me to move on. We are done. We are over. He is gone and is never coming back.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
It's interesting, I guess, that the WAS is always searching for the elusive "happy". They never seem happy with what they have and seem to think that "happy" will come to them if they do this or that. When they realize "happy" exists within and is about acceptance then it's too late.
It's a very common trend here on this BB. "George" is smart and I only hope that many WAS learn quickly before they do what he did.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
