I agree with what Puppy has said. EXPOSE. Sounds like to me she doesn't know what she wants and it's time for the push.

Exposure can jolt a wayward right out of the "this is all about me" state of mind. I would tell her that if she wants out, there's the door.

My WW told me on one occasion she wanted a divorce "it's what I want" and wanted to separate but "DS16 and I aren't going anywhere" so then I exposed to the kids and bam, one day later she wants to stick around and see if we can work it out. Don't know if it'll work or not, but we've got a chance.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.