When we last left the continuing limbo, rollercoaster, WTF is going on in my life, saga WW and I were having a very good weekend.
So I thought I'd continue with the detaching. When I went to bed last night I didn't say a word to her. She was on the couch reading her next book. I don't think she really has a clue what's in the book because it's titled "at first sight" and is a story about a couple that falls "in love" very quickly, she gets pregnant and then dies in child birth and the guy falls in love with the baby "at first sight". But in the middle of the book the couple has problems because of a lot of crap and they struggle because they don't really know each other and got pregnant and married in a big hurry. I think she probably bought it so she could confirm how wonderful OM is and how they fell in love so quickly, but she's going to get a shock when she gets to the middle of the book. Oh well, maybe something good for old H4U in that book. I know it also probably bothered her because DS19 called me when he got back to his apartment from his weekend trip to see his GF and he didn't call her or ask to speak to her. Oh well, consequences of your actions.
This morning, WW comes in the master bath again while I'm still standing there naked! I'm beginning to like this. Maybe she is looking for me to try something like some of you have suggested. Still don't know what I'm going to do. Do I try to show her some affection or do I just continue to detach and let her want it MORE? Thing is, right now I'm not sure I WANT anything to happen because I don't want her thinking I'm easy , but at the same time I do think I know that for us to reconnect we might have to go there before I'm really ready.
I left the bedroom without saying anything to her. If this detaching is working she should try to pull me back in more soon. We'll see if I get any IM's or anything at work today.
Last edited by Hope4us; 06/23/0801:22 PM.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
, but at the same time I do think I know that for us to reconnect we might have to go there before I'm really ready.