I was reading a thread and "puppy" made a lot of good points here about confronting W about affair: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1485289&page=3&fpart=1

Do you think I should confront my w about this OM that I'm
pretty sure is giving her emotional support.

When she admitted it a while ago I told her I forgave her and
knew why she did it because of neglect etc. We never really
talked much more about it, she said that she cut all communication
off with him.

Now, since this last setback of mine I think that she is back
talking to him. I don;t think they are a physical relationship,
but still whether it;s emotional or physical its still wrong.

Should I confront her before I leave about this? What do you
think I should say to her. I cannot prove she is talking
to this guy, but all the signs are there, she gets dolled
up when she goes out, she texts a lot on her cell phone
and when I come in the room she gets uncomfortable and
puts the phone away. She has become distant to me and she
has become distant to her friends/sister and has a lot of
mood swings like she is carrying a lot of guilt around. I
know there is guilt from the casino too, but there's more.

I feel I need to say something to her about this, but
I'm wondering if I do if it will just push her far
away, get her mad etc.

Any advice here?


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