Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee

I think it's about just an overall lack of respect and consideration on her part. I mean, she's getting what she wants and says she wants it to be civil but acts like an ass..I think that's the problem and it pisses me off.

Tell me about it!!! I've done the avoidance dance as well. The minute I am with him for longer than 3 min, I let some anger out... I can't shut up, I can't hold it back. Unless you let it out someway, it's going to stay there, waiting...

Go back and find the trail, see where it leads you. Why do you feel this way? Again. Can you control her behaviour? Nope. My C told me fear is a second generation emotion. It usually is connected with fear(I hope I remember correctly, my memory sucks lately, I have posted this before I think, I'll go check).
Do you feel bitter too?

Mike, I am so sorry. Everything is so connected and hurts very much. Maybe anger will put you on survival mode...
K


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Reconc.November 2009