Thanks Tink. The presents were for our son. I will not contact my H or see him any more.

Not that that has worked in the past, as far as drawing him closer, but, it doesn't matter what I do in that regard.

I've been unavailable for months at a time, with no contact, and nothing changes.

Not arguing with you, really, just trying to wrap my head around the fact that it is over.


Married: 25 years
Separated: 5 years
Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24
Me: 53
H: 50

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