Thanks everybody. I just don't know what to do. I mean, I really want to hurt him.
I just sent him an email telling him I am filing, and I also told him the terms. His aparment lease is in my name because he couldn't get it in his. I am canceling it, so I imagine he will have to move to a different (not near as nice) place.
Also his car is in both our names and I pay the insurance. We were in the middle of refinancing so that his payment wasn't so high. I was sending in the papers this week, not anymore. He will have to get the car in his name or sell it by the time the divorce is final. In the meantime, he must pay his insurance.
I will also put that he has to pay for half the house expenses (for those of you who don't know my story, we are in AL and we have a house for sale in TX...I have been paying ALL expenses). I told him that I realize that he doesn't have the money for this...but neither would I if I was living in an apartment so he should start making other arrangements.
This is the straw that broke the camel's back.
Originally Posted By: dry_heat
He's not sorry for what he did, he's sorry he got caught!
EXACTLY!
This just baffles me because things were going so good. He was telling me everything about OW (this is not original OW, somebody he works with), and it just seemed like we were both being so open and honest. I feel like a fool. I didn't even know what was going on when he took me outside. How could I be so stupid????
