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redsawks44 #1490861 06/23/08 01:56 AM
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well right now after the realtor left, i had feelings of hate towards W... i know i don't hate her..but sure felt like it.. just kept talking nicely to her when she asked questions..

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update ..went for another walk with the dogs (probably i did 20K today in all (12 miles)..


when the realtor was here, i know my W was expecting me to resist and be a pain.. nope.. very cooperative and pleasant..

she must be wondering by now.. wtf...?

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i feel like i am talking to myself \:\(

anyways wearing my glasses in the kitchen (i am only suuposed to wear them for driving and watching tv)..W says your not supposed to be wearing those.. i know you , you think you look hot wearing those. I didn't say anything, then i said oh you think i look hot wearing my glasses... she smiled.. she says oh the girl at the store probably said they look really good...

good sign?

redsawks44 #1490959 06/23/08 04:34 AM
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I posted to you on ladybug's thread!

Good sign? Who knows? She talked to you. It was rational, and a bit amusing.

A sign? Here is a bit of advice... If you try to look at every interaction as a sign, one way of the other, you are going to be checked into a mental hospital long before this is over!

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From ladybug's thread:
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I just wonder why she hasn't wanted to speak about anything.. she's just soooo angry..


Pretty much answered your own question! She is angry to the point that she thinks talk is a waste of time.

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i saw that after thanks Jeff..

BTW I am Darrell.. it's a pleasure

whenever were in a room , we talk small talk.. she has made mentions of what our kids, what i'd be like with kids. Your right, the only reason i ask about signs, is my DC asked to write down any signs.. so i thought that could be one

i need to get DR ASAP eh...

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Yep!

There are signs. But to mind mind they are not necessarily individual events, so much as feelings. But that's just my thoughts on it. When things feel different, they probably are.

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
From ladybug's thread:
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I just wonder why she hasn't wanted to speak about anything.. she's just soooo angry..


Pretty much answered your own question! She is angry to the point that she thinks talk is a waste of time.



hopefully she comes around and we have a chat sometime..nsomeone told me right now i have to start as if i was courting her all over agsin,,, square 1

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
Yep!

There are signs. But to mind mind they are not necessarily individual events, so much as feelings. But that's just my thoughts on it. When things feel different, they probably are.

my meds are kicking in and i had a hard time understnding that,, will try to decipher in the morn.

i remember W's longtime friend got divorced, and when her W asked them sts start dating again. it was a resounding no,, but different sitch,, as he didn;t work, was lazy etc..

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Maybe square zero!

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