There are signs. But to mind mind they are not necessarily individual events, so much as feelings. But that's just my thoughts on it. When things feel different, they probably are.
my meds are kicking in and i had a hard time understnding that,, will try to decipher in the morn.
i remember W's longtime friend got divorced, and when her W asked them sts start dating again. it was a resounding no,, but different sitch,, as he didn;t work, was lazy etc..