Especially, when my stbx continues to get back on the fence of indecision every one in a while. He always goes back to ow but for some reason it catches something in my heart.. even though I KNOW what the outcome will be... How do I completely detach from that??
He has even mentioned the possibility of us "dating" again after the D is final..
Tell him sorry, but he's too confused and you and your daughter need a man who is fully committed to you and holding a family together.
As far as him wanting to date after the D, tell him there's a long line and unfortunately once the D is final he will be at the end....
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
