You know, the whole mixed messages thing to me, is perhaps them only trying to convince themselves that what they are doing is right. It's really her not letting you go, think about it. If she was done, truly done, there would be no communication, no card, no exchange of books, etc. She's holding on, but like sooners7xchamps says, she's confused. It's a mixed bag of emotions. I'm no different. And that is why I wonder about my sitch, because everywhere else I read, there is this form of subtle communication going on. But then I remind myself that it may just be too soon yet. Only been what 6 weeks? LOL. (It totally feels longer because I have nothing to fill my days with... can I say, JOB would be nice one more time! Lol)
Patience, yes. Got to have lots of patience. I agree with this.
I have blocked out a lot of negative thought and gander as much as I humanly can, that is. I've began to gravitate to only positive things. When I start to feel down, I shift my mind and start to listen to my favorite music, pick up a book, or look at something that makes me laugh, etc. I found a bunch of baby pictures of me that I have never seen before. Gosh, I was one cute baby! Happy too. That has been helping A LOT!
