Or leave a bad taste in your mouth

[lovnlrn]

Oh my...the guy....sorry, Jeff, but he's does something for me :-p I clicked on the other pics to get a better look. :-)

[MichelleLT]

I know!!!!! I love his tattoos too (except maybe the one of the girl lol). Got to see them in person at the battalion social since there was a pool and a bunch of us went swimming. They definitely look good on him!

AND he likes opera. He told me his favorite aria and was totally impressed when I could name the opera lol. If he ever invited me to go with him......I might just take him up on it!

[mishka422]

Ok, he's a little young for me but he certainly is HOT!

[MichelleLT]

So, apparently could only see that one if you have a myspace account. So here's a better link plus another picture.

And he's certainly not too young for me..................lol

[lovnlrn]

Yes, I was actually logged in to Myspace at the time. lol

[klm]

oh my....he is HOT.

[klm]

hey Michelle, if you are around check my thread....really need all the help I can get right now.

[MichelleLT]

(((everyone)))

(((((((((((Kris))))))))))))

I'm off to bed. I will finish catching up and posting tomorrow.

[AliSuddenly]

Blimey, thats some bod! He looks sweet though, in his face.

This might be a funny question...but I guess your not in love with your H anymore? I hope you are doing ok, seeing as the D looks like it is going ahead? Again, Mercury went forwards this weekend and then you guys have a conversation at last about your joint things and the paperwork. Could take a little longer to sort out, but looks like you know where you stand now?

We missed you! will post a little synopsis for you on my thread.
Ali xxx

[MichelleLT]

Lol. I'm not sure sweet would necessarily be my first thought. Self-assured (arrogant even), funny (he's got enough of a sense of humor to even take my jibes when he makes some smarta$$ comment about how hot he is, plus he's got laugh lines - which are always attractive - and not many worry lines ), outgoing, adventurous...sure. Charismatic, definitely. He's from the south, and he's got the charm - "sugar" "baby", all that, and it sounds good coming from him lol.

Friday, he asked me if I'd ever had a one-night stand! When I replied no, he just said, well if we ever see each other (he lives 3 hours away from me) that he'd better not be my first!

In so very many ways, he reminds me of a slightly more mature version of my H. In that respect, he's definitely my "type" lol.

As for my H, I am feeling very done. I have been for the last two and a half weeks. I am sick of this limbo, I am sick of being stressed out, I am sick of giving him second chances. I don't see anything getting better, especially with him taking another deployment. H is giving me nothing to work with, nothing to work on. It's been a year tomorrow since he slept with the SBW the first time. More than a year since the one-night stand he had. I'm just feeling like nothing will ever get better, that he's not gonna grow up, that I deserve so much better. I'm not sure what I feel. I certainly don't feel "in love" with my H. I'm not even attracted to him. There are times I hate him, and times I don't even care. What I do know is that I am at or VERY near my breaking point with this.

And while I'm not sure this other guy even has the potential to be that "better", I'm certainly getting to a point where the thought of being D and learning to date again doesn't scare me anymore.