Hey jules, much like a bad fire or accident,the scars are going to be there. It's the refocusing on the positives that matters and you are one of the best I have seen at it.
Your girls will be fine, they will also always remember how they feel right now and in time it will become part of their make up when they choose to marry. I know it is hard to watch, but in the end adversity makes for incredible character.
