I have myself protected legally already and I will be giving the tough love deal when it comes to money. I will not give her cash, but I will buy whatever the girls need and help with various bills etc.
I actually flirted a tiny bit a little while ago just to test the waters and she responded positively. I told her she looked really hot in her new shoes and she stopped to show them to me and smiled and said "oh these, I've had them for a while" she was modeling them a bit so to speak lifting up on her toes and showing me them.
I'll now try and send her a short flirty text and see if she responds to that then I'm crashing... I'm beat. Even if she wants to have sex I will not.
However, I think she went to the casino again tonight.
I'm still going to move out in a couple of days because I know she needs space. As well as to show her how hard she is going to have it with me not around. I have no intention on leaving my kids and I will be spending lots of time with them. It's me spending time with them mostly now anyway. she is the one neglecting them. She was just bitching at them a little while ago about how they are treating her. They are acting out against her because of the way she is neglecting them. I did not say anything to her I just told the girls on the side to try and be nice even if moms upset because she has a lot on her mind.
My sister in law and our friends are trying to figure out how to help her with the gambling. Note: I'm not bitter with her about it I'm actually very concerned and I know how the addiction works. her aunt had it bad and even lost her house over it so I know full well how bad it can be. I just wish I could help her.
As far as gluten intolerance. Well after being on a strict hypo diet for a while I reintroduced wheat and had a bad reaction. I got a rash all over my body and I crashed for 12 to 16 hours. I did it on two separate occasions with the same results.
- Scott
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