Is your wife on birth control? Several methods are well known for sucking a womans sex drive dry. I lost mine to the Depo shot. It may have cost me my marriage. The hormones can really do a whammy on you. She also may not feel connected to you, or maybe she doesnt feel attractive to you. Maybe you should ask her if it bothers her, or if she has ever talked to her doctor about it, and if she has and they blew her off (like they did me) she needs to insist that they listen to her, or she will find someone who will.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...