(2:56:04 PM) H: Would you like the kitchen stuff or any more of the furniture? I won't have any use for it shortly and it'd be sad for teh cast iron all to rust (3:09:05 PM) H: If you don't feel like talking that's fine. But the offer is open... free stuff. Don't get that everyday (3:51:15 PM) Me: i still want the cast iron, yes H: alright, I'll set it aside in a box for ya Me: i would also like some of the rest of the kitchen stuff perhaps Me: i don't have room for more furniture though H: fair enough, you can just have the kitchen boxes entirely or you can rummage Me: i haven't signed the papers yet because they need to be fixed. blank spots, missing attachments, and we do have community property - the car. H: I didn't notice any attachments needed, but ok, more your field than mine Me: not really. i want nothing to do with family law, but my friend told me not to sign them. so i'm not. H: well if you jot down what you want changed we can write it in or come to a compromise H: I didn't expect the first one would be sufficient since I was hoping to just decide on property ourselves, we can write everything in H: did you get to shoot an AT-4 btw? Me: i don't have anything else to say to you at this point H: fair enough, I'm just trying to maintain a dialogue so we can agree on any thing on the papers needing changed Me: i need you to find out how to get my name off your car. what DMV paperwork needs to be done H: if you'll write down what you want changed I can write another draft Me: i need you to fill out the financial attachments that are required to be submitted with it H: some of those you'll need to fill out too Me: yep H: alrighty then, I'll look into those things for you Me: okay H: but it'll happen tomorrow, right now I'm going to the pub, it's been 3 years today [since guy in his platoon was shot by a sniper and died] Me: he deserves that, no doubt about it