On a separate note, you are a very educated woman, and you care a lot about folks on the board, and you see a lot in real life.
We have one purpose, one singular purpose on the board and that is to save marriages. And I know you care about that too.
Sometimes we offer advice to someone to protect themselves legally. It can also destroy their marriage if followed to the letter of the advice given. Your advice is especially 'weighted' since you are a doctor. So please be careful in this regard. If I feel the advice I'm giving someone could be contradictory to DBing or detrimental to their marriage (which is our 'patient' here, not the person themselves), I add a disclaimer, THIS IS NOT DB ADVICE, and sometimes add, that this is my personal experience. You may want to do something simlar.
Thanks,
peace and all good, sg
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
