Was having a great day, playing at church went great and I'm building some good relationships. Then I found that W had texted me several times this morning:
"In a huge financial pinch again. I'm so sorry to do this to you. I hope you are feeling back to full health."
"Please work on Harding case ASAP. Also, car insurance due in August. I do really appreciate health benefits, thank you."
"Get prior coverage from HR lady, I still have thousands sitting out there. 2 pills Doc put me on are really helping!"
"All of these texts are confidential and your decision alone. Please give me some form of trust in you."
A little background, Harding is a car accident case, we won in court but still need to get money from the guy. Health insurance is giving us trouble about prior coverage (one of their common excuses), so I need to call them Monday.
I'm pissed off right now. The car insurance is for her brand new car (first thing she bought when we separated), my motorcycle is a separate policy. I want to help, but she's digging a huge hole.
Will probably call and be calm and in control, tell her not to worry it will be OK. I already had several of these things on my to-do list for Monday.
So, sounds like she's really stressed. Maybe this is all good? At the very least it's reality time (finally) for my W.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK