Does a WAW want you to fight for them?

[cz946]

Went to w bday party last night. It went really well I think. I had a great time with all our friends. She loved the video(compilation of pictures of her life) I gave her. I made sure that I was happy and upbeat. I talked to everyone and danced with a few of our friends.

Early during the night, I gave the w a hug. She responded with you can't be hanging on me like that. I said no problem I understand. Being sure to not look disappointed and all. Later that night I asked her to dance and she said yes. So we slow danced to a song, and danced to a few others. We never talked about the relationship or anything. We just had a good time. She left about a half hour before me.

On my way home I was going to send her a txt thanking her for a wonderful night, but I didn't. I thought we had a great night, we will leave it at that. To my surprise, after I fell a sleep she sent me a txt saying "Thank you for the video I did like it very much."

So this morning, I responded, I am so happy you liked it, I was reaaly excited to give it to you.
She responded" I wish you would have gave it to me at home. Doing that in front of everyone was uncomfortable."
I responded "I just think a gift like that is better in front of friends and family. Didn't intend to make you uncomfortable."

She responed " I agree, but not when we are going through a Divorce." I didn't respond.


So today, I am taking her to dinner to give her the present for our daughter. It will be the three of us.

She called about an hour after her last txt above to ask what time we are going and what time my softball games are?. I said I don't care what ever works best for her, and I am skipping the games to celebrate your bday. That is something I never would have done in the past. But I am trying to show her that she is my priority, and that I am changing.

Sorry for rambling, any thoughts?