In the last week or so,I have learned alot from this site. This is the only place that gives me the necessary tools..

I was so scared when my H left for his trip.. How can I possibly work on the R or use these tools without him being here. I have barely talked to him in 2 weeks. I try only to call if I need to give him updates or messages regarding our daughter or business. Always friendly but never personal. We have not talked abouT R for 3 weeks.. Now I am scared he is coming home and reality will strike. I made an appointment for a private session with Michele. I have not asked H to attend with me yet.. I made this decision on my own. I am working on GAL but it is still hard to do. My life has been with him for so long that its hard to venture out...

What do I do when he comes home?


Me - 38
H-36
DD - 15
S- 19
Together -almost 18 years
M - 16
The Bomb - May 24th 2008
Meeting with Michelle July 7, 2008
Status - I moved out Sept 2009