I tend to agree with the others. Probably some of what he says is true but it seems like it all came out after the check thing. Don't believe most of what he said. Like you said....all this has happened in 4 short months. There's no way he would snap out of it all of a sudden. You might hear something like that a year or two down the road.
I know what you mean about family time. That's the thing that still gets to me. Yesterday was hot and I had D little pool out. I actually sat in it with her for a while. Later we walked to the park and after we got home she wanted to play more. I was tired and she said "if you don't play with me I have no one to play with." That just got to me because W sees her about 10% of the time. I honestly think we'll never spend time together as the three of us.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)