He has even mentioned the possibility of us "dating" again after the D is final.. Do people really do that?? What is the thought process there?? Do people really go out and play the field only to discover the best thing they had going for them was right in their own backyard and expect that the X will be there waiting for them?? I just can't imagine saying "Ok, let's date after we're D'd"... What's the point of d'ing then??
I can't imagine that either. I think after we get divorced it will be over for me.
I do know my gf had lived with someone for several years, he cheated, and they broke up (I think it was mutual). He called her after a year or so, and wanted to date her again b/c he found out there weren't millions of girls out there like my gf, but she was really special. I guess they think the grass will be greener, and then find out that's not true. But by then my gf had met and was going to marry her H, who is a wonderful guy, they've had 2 girls, etc. And I could see that happening to a lot of us here at DB, b/c we are great people, and I think our WAS don't realize that, take us for granted, etc.
Speaking about the whole happy thing, yes I want my H to be happy, but I just don't believe he will be ultimately with the OW. She's already had several marriages, of course has cheated on her last husband with my H, and many people have told me her kids are bratty and messed-up, etc. So I can honestly say I want him to be happy; I just don't believe it will be with OW (for very long anyway). Karen
