Lodo, I agree we seems to continue on the same wavelength if not in our details, at least in the way we feel about them. Busy is stressful, but busy is good. But hopefully your work/study obligations will taper a bit and let you spend some time concentrating on the rest of your life. It's normal to think about W, I still do constantly. But I am better at not letting it be the barometer of how I act, what I do. It's not easy but I'm getting there.
When I met W, there were also small signs of what she is displaying in full glory right now. I also think it boils down to emotional immaturity. We helped each other grow in our life together, but maintaining, feeding, nurturing the R -- that's where we failed. And when things got difficult as a result, she regressed back to her immature self and I lost her.
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