My sadness is the loss for what she was (or what I mistakenly thought she was). That we are not fighting and that she is not hateful towards me (like some of your WAS's are), is a blessing but also sometimes gives the illusion she is still in there somewhere.
hey g - i know how you feel. In many ways it sounds like we continue to be in the same place with our Ws. It's really hard to let go of that illusion.
