My H has always said "We can see what happens after the D. We should never close our door". Um, ok.
People do really do that. Go peek at "Divorced But Not Done". Find startingover's thread. Its amazing. It seems very confusing to me, the getting back together after the D, to have all that hurt and pain, and then try again. Why not do the work now? I suppose your H (and many) aren't in a place now to see it, much less want to work on anything.
