W did say things like getting everything settled on so we dont have to wait until Nov and just a lot of other things about wanting to be done and over with this.W talked about her L talking with my L, blah blah blah. Also about how the S has been doing and has had to deal with a lot of changes the past few months, how we need to switch daycares, that he wants to either be with mommy or daddy or grandma but not go to where we are taking him.
I told W I asked S why he doesnt like it and told her what his replies were. So I dont know.
W did ask if I still go to the counselor and probed a little into that. Yea I want back after W said she was taking D off hold and moving forward, I was a wreck! That was almost a month ago I went. Told W C was the one that recommended the support group. One time that we went together and W told C she had filed, C suggested that we both attend a support group. I didnt bring that to W attention, W started asking about the support group though. Told W people are there that are having the same feelings I am going through so its great to know that Im not alone and not crazy about whats going on. W didnt really ask about what feelings there was.
Did make the comment when W talked about eating out said she hasnt done that in a while. I said, yes and it really shows! She tried to deny it, but its the truth, lost a lot since xmas. So i dont know if I should make the comment "told you you was going to get skinny and leave me" or is that appropirate. She is skinnier than when I first started dating her. Crazy how that happens, huh?
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M-31 W-28 S7 D2.5 T 8, M 4 W filed 2-14-08 D on hold 3/08 D off hold 5/08 D to be final on/by Nov 08 Anniv 9-4 looked hopeful