I'm putting the updates into my Newcomers thread. The link is in my sig. I don't want to have the same conversation in two places, especially since some other people are also writing in both.
I should have titled this thread "Your Advice: Wait Longer or Talk Tonight?" but I can't resist trying to be funny.
The short version: she has followed through so far, and I have tried to follow through as well. We've had three good days. I'm just trying to keep things moving now. Details at the link in my sig.