Well, they all know mom sleeps in the guestroom. The two little ones got her "I'm working, so I can leave" speech. (Don't know if they remember it, they might be good at blocking that out.) The older ones certainly know things are not good. All of that said, S10, especially, is going to be really hurt if things go the way they might. That's a big reason that I haven't pushed, to this point. I wish there was a way around it.