kat727: You have come such a long way in a short period of time.
Wierd, I feel wierd being here, people come her to try to find help saving their M. I came here for the same reason at first, but I quickly realized I had no choice. W was still with OM and I wasn't going to put up with it.
I now only come here to vent, journal and lend a kind word or two or a prayer for someone here.
I haven't ever left the anger stage: I love my W soooo much, the pain and anger I still feel today thinking of her and OM touching. I cannot even stand to look at her and its hard to talk to her. It takes a lot of effort on my part just to be civil to her.
W put a strain on our finances, totaled a van, wrecked the new van before I made the first payment, so my auto insurance has gone way up. I just got done paying of her credit cards from when we were first married she had $16,000 in credit card debt, going into the M. During my snooping period, I found out she has racked up another $8,000 in credit card debt. She took all the furniture, so I have to buy new stuff, (looking at some used stuff to save money) I cannot file for D, I'll have to save up for that.
I'll keep you in my prayers Kat,
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
