Well everything that LNF just wrote is spot on. I have no idea how anyone can get to the other side without their faith.

and hoosiermom, they all have an entitlement issue when they are going through this, so you're tight about that. Maybe some are to guilt ridden to ever remarry. That doesn't mean that they haven't had affairs. Maybe he was in the seminary to begin with for all of the wrong reasons. Possibly he felt that that's what was expected and that he had no other choice. Now all of this anger that he's stuffed down for feeling as if he always did what others wanted is coming out. What I do know is that these issues came into play way before you were ever in the picture. Unfortunately you are the one he can do something about and you happen to be in the line of fire.

LNF is so right. Keep praying and keep coming here for support.

Love,
Bethie