I wonder if it's because they spent so much time sitting on the fence about leaving seminary--then being perpetually ticked off because they can't "have it all," then they decide eventually that they're entitled to whatever they want because they're full of resentment. I've known a few who have never gotten married--which makes one wonder why they didn't just stay and become priests. Lots of unresolved stuff.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012