WOW!!! I am so very sorry this has happened to your family. There is simply no preparation for the feelings of betrayal. I so hope that you haven't given up your faith. For me, it's been very shaky at times but honestly the only thing I had to pull me through the valley. There have been times where the anger and unforgiveness were boiling so hot within me I wanted to lash out even at God for allowing it. But in His mercy he knew my pain and my heart and He wouldn't let me go. There are some times that we just have to "be still" and know that He is. Some how some way this will all work out for your good.... just believe and trust in Him.
As for your H.... the enemy got a foothold and is doing everything possible to rip him apart. He needs a lot of prayer. The enemy doesn't bother to attack those who pose no threat... keep H lifted up in prayer that God will give him the strength to find his way back.
How are you holding up in all of this? Do you have a family and friends closeby for support? These boards have many wise people to offer advice and support. If you haven't read Michelle's book... get it. The principles will help you as an individual just as much as offering advice to help the marriage. Keep posting, keep reading and keep praying!!
Hang in there... you and your family will be in my prayers.
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
