Oh Sue (((huggggs))), what a complete A*s your H is!
I think he knows he's sh*t in his bed good this time and doesn't have a clue what he's going to do about it. He's acting like a child, lashing out this way and breaking plans with you and D4. I know it hurts you for him to act this way, but it's a sign of how unhappy his fantasy life is making him. He hasn't taken happiness from you and D4 (and you should be very proud of that!) and finally he's starting to pay the price for his choices. Can you see that? You know how to live well in spite of him and in time, that's going to be sweet revenge.
You are such a good Mommy and I'm glad you and D4 had a good time together
