Hi, shiny! Long time no see! I remember posting to your thread a long time ago, and now that I'm here at Piecing, I wanted to say hi.
Thanks for welcoming me to Piecing. It's good to be here. Boy, you've really been through the ringer, too. It's heartening to see some other folks who have gotten more than one bomb or who have been through more than one separation (not that I like to see other people having to go through it, but it's nice to know that piecing can still happen and be successful despite more than one bomb/separation.)
It sounds like the physical intimacy part of it is the biggest issue and biggest disappointment for you as you are piecing. Did I read right that CJ admits to low sex drive and he has tried Viagra? Is he willing to look into other treatments?
Otherwise, it sounds like you're dealing with pretty standard marital squabbles--disagreements over chores, time spent together, etc. Not to minimize how upsetting that can be, but just a reminder that there will _always_ be points of contention and that there will _never_ be perfection.
Also nice to have another psychologist around here!
