Hi, I'm new to the forum.

[The Wifey]

The very weird thing is that he is Physically attracted and before this we had a great sex life. I know that making love isn't enough to keep a marriage together. I think I understand what you mean by attractive though, it is more than physical attraction. It is seeing me as someone he wants to be with and someone that can make him happy. I will continue to work on me.

BTW - I left him a voice mail that I am sorry he left mad. That I really wish it was him that was taking me for a ride. I needed to see that I could do it and that I hoped that that could be something we share in the future. Nothing fancy or mushy, just said I love you, goodbye.