D4 is a hoot! My S3 did something similar, came waltzing into the living room in his b'day suit.

Sue, forgive me for asking, but if the van really is your van, why does H think he can just drive it any time he pleases? With his DUI problem isn't he at risk for putting your means of transportation at jeopardy?

And if/when you move out and are separated, does he still think he is entitled to free access to whatever vehicle you have?

Your H p*sses me off. I am so sorry.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.