Do a bit of reading about codependence in relationships (just google it and you'll find plenty) and see if any of it "resonates" with you regarding this or past relationships. If you begin to recognize yourself, it's worth giving some thought to.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012