Bring on the Rain - Part 3

[SueS]

mcojh- Thanks for the email. I'll try to get the info that you said you'd need.

lwb- How did you get so smart? You told me a few posts ago to expect some serious lashing out by my H. I saw a little the other day but it's really seeming to build up. He was quiet and fell right asleep when he got home last night. He got up later & was up and around about the time D4 and I went to bed. He was snippy when he was awake. This morning he got up to leave for work. He was getting dressed when I was waking up. He made the comment to me.....I bet you wish you could have some of this....while rubbing his chest. I didn't respond. Then he told me he was taking my van to work. I wasn't happy about that considering he will be wasting my gas and in turn my money, but his car doesn't have a cd player. I told him that I'd wanted to clean it out this morning. He got pissed and I told him, fine, take it. He was livid over that when he left, even though he took the van. A couple of days ago he asked if I'd want to go to lunch with him & D4 today. Then, he mentioned it again yesterday. So, after my massage today I came home & changed my clothes. I asked where he wanted to go. He was really pissy with me and said...NOWHERE! He told me he didn't want to go now. I got mad. I said, you know what....we (D4 & I) busted our tails today cleaning this place & I promised her that for her efforts we would take her out to eat at a nice place. He just looked at me and said, well, then take her. So, I grabbed D4 and we left. I made it fun for her. I took her to a restaurant that sits lakeside. It was a gorgeous day & she got to watch a mommy duck & her 8 little ones. When we got back home, D4 was asleep. I laid her on H (still on the couch). He didn't put his arms around her or say a word to her. She almost fell off the couch. Not long later he got up, grabbed some cd's and started to walk out. Not being able to resist, I asked where he was going (he grabbed my keys). He said, I'm running to the store and then grabbing something to eat. What an A$$!! I said, why couldn't you have gone with us? His response....I didn't want to. You know, if you're all of a sudden angry with me, FINE. Don't make your child suffer for it. He just makes me so angry.

One thing that made me laugh.....
D4 went out on the deck. I looked out there to see her clothes laying on the deck. I looked over and saw her standing there naked. NAKED! I rushed her inside. Apparently she thought it would be fun to poor water over herself with her watering can, so she took her clothes off!.

Thanks for listening everyone!

SueS