It's going to be ok. I've actually come through something similar with the Coach. What about, tomorrow, after he's sweaty from mowing the lawn, you tell him you want HIM to take you for your ride? Do something in your grooming that HE likes. If he asks if you're trying to get him back, or balks with some stupid 'man' words..........just be light and say, no strings you'd just rather it be him, just do something fun, (your version of light words). If he really doesn't want to, go do it with BIL.
I think guys in a lot of ways are pretty EASY... they are about how you make THEM feel about THEMSELVES. If he thinks he's hot (or wants to be hot), you be hot, etc.
RELATIVELY, I think you will be successful more quickly than some of the others on the board with their situations, if you don't backslide...
What kind of class are you taking?
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
