That is AWESOME news !! I am so glad that the positive changes in your R are giving her the strength and courage to make positive changes in her life too!! And hopefully those two types of changes will just mutually reinforce each other.
thank you always for sharing what's going on in your situation, you are such an inspiration
Mink congrates my friend!! I remember when you were buying ticket after ticket on that rollercoster and now you can get off it and relax a little. O and if you could stop by my mess aain she is contacting me and I thing Im doing you advise it just would be nice if ya gave it a once over. if you have a e-mail I would appreciate it i have a couple of questions for ya.
UPDATE: She has been more affectionate with me lately. I am not making a big deal out of it. I just smile at her and maybe say "that's nice" when she does something like rub my back when we are watching TV.
We are doing things together, like going for evening walks, holding hands, going to the beach, kayaking, dinner out etc. But we are also spending time with friends, away from each other.
I don't follow her around the house. I don't call her or email her all day at work. I am very aware of the 'needy' type behaviours that someone in my position could easily fall into.
I am playful with her. I wink at her and tell her she looks sexy when she least expects it.
At the end of the day, it looks like we are doing well, and we will be together.
I am thankful for all who listened to my story, and offered advice. I will still hang around, and update where necessary, but I think this divorce is busted.
I will never take my eye off the ball again. She is too important to me.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
