Welcome to divorcebusting.com. Divorce Remedy is DivorceBusting upgraded, and I think for your situation, you're fine with Divorce Busting. You can always add DR if you'd like. The extra chapters have to do with Midlife Crisis, Infidelity, and Depression........and understanding that some folks are in this for the long haul.
Your H needs to see stability from you.
If you have been begging and pleading recently, go to the Last Resort Technique....if not, start at the beginning of the book.
What Why Men Love Bitches and DR/DB have in common is using ACTION instead of words. Controlling YOURSELF.
Get yourself centered, ditch the rollercoaster, and work on REAL GIVING. Take good care of yourself, but take the opportunities to really listen to him. Then try to understand where he's coming from. Then, instead of words, take ACTION to grow the love.....by growing the friendship.
Being centered and taking good care of yourself is a little different than being selfish. So take really good care of yourself, have fun, be responsible and grow in the ways he's asking you too............and rebuild your friendship by being a real friend to him. And then flirt. Fall in love all over again. Have fun with it.
I believe you are going to be successful.
Last edited by sgctxok; 06/21/0810:59 PM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
