Addie,

Well the dinner offer stands. I am 20 Min from the Detroit/Windsor border.

I am sorry about the H lying again. At least you know what is what. No matter how this works out (H come back and recomits / you get a D) you will be better off. LRT and going dark should be easy after the move. He is the one that is making the mistake not you. Don't carry guilt about this - You never forced him to have the A. THAT IS HIS DECISION.

Hang in there Ad. It will get better from here.