I'll be moving a lot closer than you realize but in Canada.
I agree with the snooping thing. I was fine after we S but now that he's back I feel I need the truth.
I did confront in a very calm manner and he lied. I asked him if he'd been in contact with her face to face, phone calls or emails and he said no I haven't seen her and no calls but avoided answering the email part. I told him I cannot settle on the honesty bit - I need that in a M. He was very quiet, avoiding eye contact. I told him I sensed that he wasn't over HER yet. He didn't say much. Based on what he said/didn't say, I told H that it would be best to have limited contact for a period of time once I move back so that we both can sort through things.
I probably won't be back on the site until Monday. Thanks everyone for all your support.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz