Shines Like Destruction (10)

[karen43]

I was glad to see her, touch her, and (as funny as it sounds) to smell her again. I'm glad we are able to be civil. It felt like a farewell.

That's sad, and I just don't really understand it. If I was your W, I would never say farewell to you. What's wrong with her??? Karen

[kat727]

I couldn't agree more. You say the kindest, most touching things. She is insane to let you get away.

kat

[gForce]

Thanks Kat and Karen, though I have to admit I am better on paper than I am in real life. You bring tears to my eyes. I wish W felt the same.

I'm getting on my bike. Need to get some fresh air and expend some energy.

[kat727]

So maybe you should shower her with rose petals? It made my heart melt.

kat

[gForce]

Thanks Kat. Like I said, I talk a good game in print...

Seeing W today made me pretty nostalgic for who she was and what we had, but I'm not looking to melt any hearts. Hers is a million miles away right now. My goal is to look forward, not keep looking back over my shoulder at what was. Going to catch Indiana Jones tonight with a friend of mine.

Hope you all are having a good weekend.

[lodo]

Hey g,

hope your bike ride was good.

lodo

[girlfromipanema]

Thanks Kat. Like I said, I talk a good game in print...

Dearest Mr. PgFH:

How can I continue to call you Master of the Universe when you say something so foolish? Kindly retract the above nonesense at your earliest possible convenience.

You are an incredible man. Please don't ever sell yourself short again.

Respectfully,
R.

[gForce]

Hey, gfi, you are right. Pity party is over -- everyone OUT!
Thanks for the "props".
Heading out...
PgFHMotU, PhD

[kat727]

It is a fun movie...like a ride. Take it that way and you'll be fine. Like gfi said, please don't sell yourself short. I have done for a long time myself but I am a good person and someone someday is going to be thanking their lucky stars that H was an idiot!

kat

[karen43]

I have done for a long time myself but I am a good person and someone someday is going to be thanking their lucky stars that H was an idiot!

kat

I know they will!!! I was just thinking today about one of my best friends. She lived with her bf for several years and he was a cheater--she found phone #s in his truck & went to a bar looking for him and he was with OW, etc. She left him and met her now-husband and father of their two little girls who had also been cheated on by his wife (he found her in bed with OM). They are the 2 sweetest, most wonderful people but their SO were just dysfunctional losers who didn't appreciate them.

The best part was after about a year after my gf and her cheater bf broke up, he called her begging to reconcile with him--he had thought there were a million girls out there like my friend, and found out there weren't! So his loss!!! So my point is that sometimes I think we think of success stories as when the WAS comes back, but maybe if they don't, there can be a much better person out there for us. Karen