HI Tal,

No, I haven't heard from Sage, but I haven't been on the BB except to squeeze in an update for myself yesterday. Something up??

Now to your question....At FIRST the computer was a MAJOR issue. I had taken the cell phone, it's now mine. (I'd bought it for him after all )...but for a while after the A ended, every time I heard him on here my heart raced....Sometimes, but very rarely, it still does.

One of the things we did (after a time) was for him to give me access to the e-mail account he used to keep in touch with OW. Our deal was that neither of us was to touch it....it would disappear in a month. Only it didn't...which caused a bit of a kafuffle...it's dead now, Thank God!

Honestly, Tal, If CJ was downstairs all the time on his laptop, like he was a year ago, I think I'd freak out.

It's helped us a lot for this computer to be open, accessible, either one of us could walk by and check out the task bar if we wished. No sneaky screen changes (I'm hyper alert to those now )...And I suppose it's just time passing with no further evidence of any "mischief"...that does wonders for one's peace of mind!!

Shiny